I’m sure women everywhere have heard at one time or another to watch the way a man treats his mother because that’s how he’ll end up treating you. While I agree with that to a certain extent I will tell my kids to watch how their date My Little Vixen treats everyone! I loved the expression I heard recently, “If he’s not nice to the waitress he’s not nice”. Don’t kid yourself for a second by thinking if your date mocks, belittles, raises his voice at, ignores, or is rude or cruel to anyone from their mother to the person taking your order at a restaurant they won’t end up being all those things to you too. When the honeymoon period Sex On Fly of your relationship is over and “real life” sets in you’ll be on the receiving end of any mistreatment you’ve observed them dishing out to others.
The next bit of advice goes hand in hand with the first piece. When someone shows you who they are – believe them. Some of us want to believe the best of people a little too much. There’s a fine line between being a gracious, forgiving person who allows you to make mistakes and realizing someone will continue to hurt you. But there is a line! Respect the line. When someone shows Real Slut Sex you they don’t have your best interest at heart – they’ve crossed the line. Believe them when they show you they don’t treat you in a way that’s beneficial. Don’t give someone like that the chance to hurt you repeatedly. The sooner you walk away the easier it will be.
Last but not least – Lucy Bowler There’s no rush! One of my favourite parenting moments to date was when my daughter came to me saying she doesn’t understand why some of her classmates at 14 were so bent out of shape when they didn’t have a boyfriend. She said, “We’re 14! We have the rest of our lives to experience all that!” How levelheaded of her. It makes me worry less about her as she enters the dating years. I believe she’ll make great decisions if she continues to keep that one idea forefront. They have years and years to Matches Plus experience the joys and trials of dating. Each stage is exciting and wonderful and when you move on to the next stage you can’t undo it and re-enjoy the last one. Make each stage last. Love yourself enough to do what is most beneficial for you! If anyone tries to rush you into doing what you’re not comfortable with be very cautious! That’s how abusive manipulation and control begins.
I can only hope these words of wisdom will take hold in their hearts and minds. I know they need to make their own mistakes and they’ll grow with each one. But the more equipped they can go into the world of dating with Fox Plots and relationships the better I’ll feel! Above all of this I’ll let them know I’m here ready to hear about their joys and heartaches even if they go against every word of advice I ever gave them.